Let’s face it.
Learning how to learn is one of the best investments of your time.
It isn't an instant fix.
It’s a transformative journey through different stages that demands your readiness and commitment.
Next time you find yourself grappling with words trying to get your team on the same page, fear not.
You're not alone, and guess what?
You might just need a bit more time.
Enter the dojo of communication mastery with Shu Ha Ri, a Japanese martial art concept that's more than a tongue twister.
Think of this journey from 'meh' to 'wow' in three characters, 守破離.
In the Shu (守) stage, you “Obey" or "Protect“.
You follow the rule.
It’s like stepping onto the mat for the first time.
You're the disciplined apprentice learning the basic katas and soaking up the communication chops.
You’re wielding your katana with precision to protect the essence of your message.
It's all about nailing the fundamentals—storytelling, frameworks, and the secrets your mentors swear by.
You concentrate on how to perform a technique, without worrying too much about the underlying theory.
Next up is Ha (破), where you "Break free, and Innovate."
You bend the rule.
This is the time to loosen that communication kimono of yours and bring a fresh perspective to your message.
You've learned the traditional moves, and just like a martial artist who experiments with different moves from different masters, now you're ready to add your spin.
You challenge the norms, try out new concepts and inject your personality into your words.
Finally, the pinnacle—the Ri (離) stage.
Here you “Detach, Leave and Create”.
You are the rule.
This is your communication black belt—a symbol of mastery and creative freedom.
Just as a seasoned martial artist effortlessly flows through movements, you've internalized the rules so deeply that you can dance with words in a way that's uniquely you.
You aren’t learning from an instructor but from your own practice.
You create your own techniques and develop a distinctive voice.
Your words aren't just heard; they're remembered.
You're not just communicating; you're connecting.
You’re crafting an experience.
Whether you're refining your pitch, nailing that company culture, or just trying not to trip over your words in the next big meeting – remember, it's a journey.
There are no shortcuts.
Do the hours.
Because it’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives—it’s what we do consistently.
PS. Do you struggle to set yourself apart from your competitors? Does your tone of voice lack a little personality? Either way, get in touch and I’ll help you become remarkable. Or get more communication advice that doesn't suck here.
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